1. Den of Angels is closing in August 2026. New account registrations are closed. Please see this thread in Den of Angels news for important information: /threads/the-future-of-den-of-angels.893314/
    Dismiss Notice

Resolved Paging XpHoBiaX & Jigarkhvar - Unhappily resolved

Jan 21, 2017

Watch Thread
    1. XpHoBiaX was running a swap last year in July and I was paired with Jigarkhvar whom I have not received my part of the swap from. I sent out my part of the swap within the first week of receiving my swap partner. I have received nothing but runaround from this member and I wish not to have any further activity or contact with this user anymore so I messaged the swap curator in September, informing them of the situation. They were very understanding and offered to send me a compensation gift for the troubles I endured. I have received nothing from this person and I finally got so fed up I messaged XpHoBiaX, telling them I was done waiting and that I was through with the swap and I wished for no more part of it. I have not heard back from XpHoBiaX and they have not been online in four weeks.

      I am asking moderators to page both the swap curator and my swap partner for an explanation, before I decide to leave negative feedback for them.

      I am very angry at the situation, as it was my first swap experience here, and I want answers.
       
      #1 Tohruichi, Jan 21, 2017
      Tools
    2. @XpHoBiaX was last on the forum 23 December and @Jigarkhvar was last on the forum today (21 January). They are now being paged.
      @TohruIchi you can leave flaky feedback for the swap host but cannot leave negative feedback. Only swap hosts can leave feedback for other participants.
      If you have questions about this please post in Ask the Moderators.
       
      #2 eleniel, Jan 21, 2017
      Tools
      • x 1
    3. I send out
      I thought you gotz your gift, cause I never heard back from you

      I send out a card in A5 two shirts one with yugioh print and one for your 70cm boy
      I also added a white chocolate.
       
      #3 Jigarkhvar, Jan 21, 2017
      Tools
    4. [​IMG]

      I showed that picture to TohruIchi and told her I'll send out a week later (after 17th of November) which I did.
      I don't think I have the receipt anymore
      I send out way too much stuff in December to keep all the bills
       
      #4 Jigarkhvar, Jan 21, 2017
      Tools
    5. I had major surgery on my spine, and I was hurting pretty badly shortly after my last response to you, on Dec 23rd.
      It's difficult, and I apologize for being unresponsive. I couldn't help that. But I kept on working on things when I could, on top of my own swap gifts for a different swap.

      I have been trying to get your items finished, through my injury and my surgery, and overworked myself. I kept you updated as much as possible, and everyone else that I have been working with. I only knew about this paging because I was notified by Jigarkhvar. I do actually have photos of the work I have done (along with my other swap items for a different swap)

      I have nerve damage, and have been on heavy medications. I've had to learn how to walk again and it's been rough since my last message. I have finally been allowed to move about, but not excessively. I still struggle, and it will take a total of 2 years to completely and fully heal.

      This is very one-sided. Being that you 'Threw in the Towel', I don't understand why you are paging me, when you decided to give up on the whole thing.
      I informed you about my surgery and injuries. I did not realize just how bad the injury was, and how much was involved with the healing.

      I had surgery Dec 6th, stayed until late afternoon on the 7th. Stayed at a friends home so they could take care of me, so I could safely travel home. I wasn't home until Friday. It's been an up and down thing, and for the most part I lost track of time, who I needed to call or had called, doctors, my work, human resources, pharmacy, bills. I just did not know who I messaged and who I didn't.

      [​IMG]

      [​IMG]

      [​IMG]
      [​IMG]

      [​IMG]

      And MRI of my injury.

      [​IMG]

      The operation left me with a 7 inch incision, cut apart bones, and a prosthetic disk. If I had kept moving about like I was or sitting longer than I was told, I would have messed up the operation and would have to go back and have rods and metal parts put in.

      [​IMG]
       
      #5 XpHoBiaX, Jan 21, 2017
      Tools
      • x 2
    6. I never received anything and I have become quite discouraged about it. I waited patiently, thinking it was just a mail issue, but now I just don't know. I was very excited to take place in this swap and then it just ended in nothing but disappointment.

      I will not leave any flaky feedback because I do believe my part of the swap was sent out and I don't want to create anymore trouble for anyone here. I will simply just not take part in anymore swaps. I just wanted an explanation before I decided what final action I wanted to take.

      I hope nothing like this happens again for any of us, and I hope XpHoBiaX has a quick and easy recovery.

      Moderators, I consider this problem resolved and this matter closed. You may close the thread and remove the pages from both XpHoBiaX & Jigarkhvar.
       
      #6 Tohruichi, Jan 22, 2017
      Tools
    7. as for tge post problem

      i cut out two new shirts today and finish them after work
      i can't send a new artist card because it'll just take too long
       
      #7 Jigarkhvar, Jan 22, 2017
      Tools
    8. I feel a little insulted and upset about this since I was very forward with my situation, and I will not be sending a consolation gift.

      They will either be gifted out to someone else, or put for sale.

      Photos of my own works, just for the record. It's hand-sewn. Three vests, and a bag. They aren't completed yet, but I will finish them despite the situation.
      [​IMG]
      [​IMG]

      [​IMG]

      [​IMG]
      [​IMG]
       
      #8 XpHoBiaX, Jan 22, 2017
      Tools
      • x 2
(You have insufficient privileges to reply here. If this is a Marketplace thread, please remember that some areas are currently closed.)
Toggle Width
Styler
Styler
Color Options
Color Options