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Maintaining your other collections

Jan 28, 2023

    1. Hi everyone <3

      I've been thinking of posting here about this for quite a while (several months), so I'm finally here :D

      I want to ask my fellow BJD enthusiasts about your approach to your other collections, if you have any? I'm thinking about narrowing down my own focus and I'm truly mentally struggling with it.

      Let me give you a bacground on my story: I've always loved dolls. Also, due to a reason called life, I cannot have huge collections of items. Not just space, but also the fact that a day only has 24 hours and I have some other activities to work on. I have just graduated (finally omg) and I wanted to see what would change afterward, so as not to make any hasty decisions. The studies really impacted my schedule and my energy levels. Now, I'm in a place and time where I have as much free time as I'll ever have probably.

      So, the fact is that I love it when I only keep what I use and I can't wait to throw out all my college papers and printed PDF'ed articles out some time soon. I've slightly enlarged my BJD collection (from the "sworn" minumum of 5 to 7, but may go back to 6 some time soon... it flactuates around this number anyway). Besides, the only things I collect are, for example, packing materials, craft supplies, paper (books, college stuff, etc.), some flowers and that's about it. Otherwise, I'm trying to be a minimalist. I use up the craft supplies and packing, I plan to get rid of the papers as soon as I have my PhD excerpts published as several articles, and I'm not attached emotionally to most of my plants, so I'd not cry if I had to move (I love only one green baby particularly). WHenever I finish a book, I give it away to anyone who needs/wants it. I love the idea of crossbooking.

      In the light of the above, I have one collection that really makes me feel confused. I mean, my Barbies. I have six girls and two boxes full of their clothes & accessories. I love their smily faces, their made-to-move bodies, their relative tininess, etc. Plus, due to having a clubfoot, my brain is sooo hooked on my, literally, precious Barbie shoe collection. However, I don't feel as connected to them as to my BJDs. The Barbies don't have developed personalities, or even names sometimes. I got particulalry discouraged when I once wanted to sell away some of their clothes. I make clothes both for the BJDs and for the Barbs. But the (re)sale value is so different! If I'm spending a couple or even several hours on one BJD item, I can get the value back, sort of, and my clothes are nowadays so good that I began to put labels inside (they're not perfect, but they're decent and my customers are very happy). Now, when I make such a corset or a dress for a Barbie, I usually put the same amount of work and not much less fabric & supplies either. But there, the (re)sale value is close to zero. Once I got so angry that I decided to "sell" one piece just for the shipping price to my dolly friend. That experience really discouraged me from sewing for them. And sure, I could just "give away" these clothes, or "donate to kids in *name an institution*" where they'd be soon damaged and not appreciated, or continue to stash them at my place which is ridiculous, because I'm trying to get rid of useless hoards.

      So now, that I have all the time in the world, I sew a lot. And it's always for the BJDs. I pass my Barbies, pretending I don't see them. I don't see a reason to keep dolls I cannot re-dress and sew for, but I also feel it so painful on my heart to just sell these cuties. Some of them are OOAKs (misprints that look better than the actual version), or collectibles, etc. I'd never be able to get back. I know it's "only" 6 Barbies and two boxes, but I have already too much stuff and looking for things to downsize on. The BJDs are out of question, lol.

      I'm asking here, because I know that fellow dolly people can relate bette than e.g. "buy nothing" or "decluttering groups", where I really had a suggestion to just get rid by donating collectibles to kids... I mean... augh.

      TL;DR: I want o keep my barbies, because they are uber-cute and often impossible to get back, should I change my mind. But the (re)sale value of their clothes is minimal and insulting for the amount of work I put in them. And yet I don't like collecting dolls I could not possibly re-dress and sew for. I have a limited amout of storage, so just senselessly keeping their clothes is out of question.

      I'd appreciate any input <3
       
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    2. I think the best thing to do in this situation if there is little resale value, is maybe to join a specific barbie collector group somewhere (Facebook, Reddit, discord) and find a way to gift or trade the clothes to people who will actually enjoy them :abow:

      I think that will definitely make you feel better than chucking them out somewhere they might just get destroyed by children haha.

      Another option I can think of is antique and vintage stores. There sometimes vendors who carry vintage Barbies, and maybe you’ll be able to get in contact with them? Perhaps you can sell the lot of clothes to them (even if they aren’t necessarily vintage it can be worth a shot since they are handmade, and artisan goods may fall into their audience)
       
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    3. You may not be connected to the barbies the same way you are to the BJDS, but from what I'm reading it seems you have an emotinal attachment to your barbies. Something holding you back from letting them go. I think you should keep the barbies because if you are torn on how to lessen your Barbie collection it may come to haunt you years later and you will want them back. Sometimes i think about a toy I had years ago that I lost or something happened to it. I forget about that toy for several years, but every so often I find myself thinking of that toy and longing for that toy. I might spend hours to days searching for it because I had an emotional attachment to it something about it connected me to that point in time. Something made me clung to that memory.

      from what i am understanding (i could be misunderstanding i had to read several times to understand the post) it seems what might be bothering you is you see no use in keeping your Barbie collection because the outfits don't resell for a good value and you don't have a reason to keep your them unless they are worth cluttering up your home.

      I think if you feel an attachment to your Barbies you will come to regret letting them go, so take your time to think about whether you really would be okay letting them go.

      If you can't get the resale value back for the outfits you've made for the barbies perhaps instead of using up your time, materials, and hard work into making an outfit that may not sell for a price you would like you can have people commission you for a custom outfit. If it's commissioned exactly how someone wants the Barbie outfit maybe they would be willing to pay a higher price for your outfits.

      Another suggestion (it's I think not so good of an idea) is if the clothes take up space being in boxes maybe you can use the outfits to display them like on a doll clothes rack sort of like a shopping mall clothes rack. That might help with space or you can display the outfits on the wall like photos surrounding your 6 barbies. Maybe these ideas are terrible... I think I misunderstood what you were trying to say.

      Edit: I collect BJDS, BTS, and plush toys. It takes up space and i have a hard time letting go, so I think my advice wasn't helpful. If I were you I would just keep the collection for several years until I wanted something more that could replace my collection with a stronger emotional attachment. My problem is I don't think to declutter. I've tried a few times letting go of some items unrelated to BJDS and BTS, but my sister stops me each time because she thinks I will regret letting those items go. In the end, I end up liking those items again in a 3 to 5 year cycle again...
       
      #3 Forever We Are Young, Jan 28, 2023
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    4. Maybe you can pack them up nice and put them in a closet or storage for now? If I'm on the fence about letting something go, I box it up and put it away somewhere hard to reach. If I don't go for them in a year I reevaluate.
       
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    5. That's the way I generally go about it especially for anything collectible. The last thing you want is to be on the fence then regret tossing it later.

      @CutieKitty If you find after a bit you're still just itching to throw it away I would definitely consider what @nekkous mentioned and find a barbie group that'd be able to appreciate them as well! :)
       
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    6. @nekkous Reddit yes! I forgot about that, omg! :D Thank you <3 Also, if other solutions fail, I'll remember to visit such an antique or "weird stuff" shop locally! Definitely!

      @Forever We Are Young Oh, I think you're totally right! I'm torn because I still "feel something". I know how it feels when you miss something from a few years back (my migidoll Jina boy, for example ;) I have found with the BJDs, actually, that I prefer ready-mades to commissions, because I always need to shop for fabric which takes time and always leaves some unused fabric extra though. Thanks for sharing about you! It's a wise warning!

      @elfy016 Sort of "freeze" them, right? I'll definitely need to do it when I decide to move overseas in some time! Thanks!

      @PorcelainVeins Unless it's too personal - may I ask you what items you have 'frozen" in a box and what feelings did you have about them after reopening?

      Thank you all <3
       
    7. As a collector of MANY things, not all of my collections are out on display. My teacups are packed away in the attic, as are some of my mugs. I like them but I don't want them being used at the moment. So instead of being in the kitchen, they're packed away.

      I have collector's Barbies too - some of which I don't like anymore - but I have to figure out how to sell them because as a young child, I took them out of the box and played with them. A few I still really like but they're not on display.

      However, I have a LOT of Barbie clothes specifically for my Soom Mini Gem and Myou 27cm dolls. So in the BJD community, there are what we call mature minis that can WEAR clothes made for Barbie. You could market your hand made Barbie clothes to those collectors. I have I think 2 handmade dresses that look great on my girls.

      So, if you're trying to downsize the clothing aspect of your Barbies, market them for Mature Mini BJD AND Barbie. They might sell better that way. I can't really say what price is right but hand made clothing buyers can be very subjective. They want a certain look/fabric/color. So it just might be a matter of finding the right buyers - I looked through your flickr and Instagram and you have a certain aesthetic that may gather the gothic/historical doll owners but some of the prints on the Barbie sized clothing were very common looking so they might be harder to sell. By common, it feels like I have seen them before, either for sale by Mattel or somewhere else, like an aunt made it for my own doll or something. For example, the polka dots or flower prints. I think your beadwork and layering of fabrics in like the tier skirts/dresses is very unique though!
       
      #7 jessholy, Jan 28, 2023
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    8. There is nothing wrong with having multiple collections. I know you mentioned being minimalist, but if they bring you joy why worry about getting rid of them? I collect all kinds of things, dolls (various), coins, video games, pins, and watches. As long as there is a mindfulness about collecting then I see nothing wrong with it. In my opinion 6 Barbies and their clothes is not a lot, you can pack those up nice and neat and put them in your closet when not in use. If you want to downsize, then finding a Barbie sales/trades fb group is a good place to start to find interest and decide what you want to do.
      I would also second marketing the clothes to mature mini bjds. I have a few mature 1/6 bjds that almost exclusively wear Barbie clothes.
      Also, some Barbie clothes might fit the new Disney ily dolls too (have not checked how many of my Barbie outfits fit my ily yet but they seem of similar size. . .)
      There is nothing wrong with enjoying stuff though. Do what makes you happy, whatever that is (within reason lol).
       
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    9. I'm someone who is also a minimalist at heart but drawn in by this hobby, and it really is a struggle.
      Toy collecting for me is a very delicate balance of enjoyment and frustration.
      I currently have 5 BJD, 6 Ever After High, and a few other kind of random collectibles.
      Even with a relatively small amount of these things, I am often assessing and sorting, thinking about reorganizing, etc. because I have a hang up that I feel like I have to be actively enjoying, and have proper space for anything for me to merit keeping it.
      BJD & EAH, while all dolls, I've come to realize that the collections are quite different and separate in my mind as far as how and why I collect them. It has been a literal saga with a lot of back and forth on decision making for me with them as well.

      To me it sounds like you might gain some clarity by creating some mental separation between the creating side (making clothes), collecting side (owning, displaying, storing items), and perceived value (worth monetarily vs your time vs emotional/psychological).
      You seem to enjoy your Barbies and sewing in itself, but have tied that enjoyment to the monetary worth and are worrying about whether it's worth them taking up space in your home. I'm not a crafter, so the attachment might be different for you, but if it were me I'd probably sell off all the clothing pieces I no longer like as much in a single lot, then focus on nicely displaying and storing the dolls, shoes, and what clothes I liked most. Then, continue to sew purely for the separate hobby of it, regardless of resale value.
       
      #9 Nell, Jan 29, 2023
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    10. It sounds like you still like them. I also have multiple doll collections and over the years, have cycled through what I’m currently interested in. Even though I only have a few Barbies and don’t do much with them, there are days I’m happy they’re still around.
       
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    11. @jessholy Thank you for the advice! I forgot about that BJDs often have a similar size. As for the fabric - I totally see what you mean. I plan to sew some other clothes that look more 'fashion-doll' like and less dolly/flowery in the future. Thank you for such an objective, refreshing opinion <3 Sometimes it's hard to look at my own creations from a distance.

      @MariSunshade thank you <3 I get overly anxious when I have too many objects though... I have the sense that if everything is special, then nothing is special anymore and I try to have as few collections as possible. But your response made me think - where precisely does this anxiety come from and why can't I just enjoy having things that still bring me joy? Thanks!

      @Nell Do I understand your right that you are another struggling minimalist who's also into dolls? :D <3 The thing about the clothes is that I really do sew *a lot* and there's no way to keep it all there. Yes, even the Barbie clothes lol xD But I'll see about the lot vs singles idea! thanks <3

      @brightberry thank you <3
       
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    12. @CutieKitty You're welcome! While I don't create anything to sell, I am a rabid consumer hahaha. So I was trying to look through what you make and ask myself "why wouldn't I buy this?" and it really came down to "It looks like something I could get for cheaper/already have/don't want." And that is very different per buyer. I already have enough polka dot and flower print items for my dolls. But historical outfits, outfits with dramatic flair, or multiple materials, or a lot of embellishment - that catches my eye and makes me think "Oh would look good in this?" Granted, those were mostly on your BJDs and not on your Barbies. That is also just ME - there are others out there who want polka dots and flowers but maybe they want them in a vintage cut like 1950s or 1940s style clothing. I think you have enough variety in Barbies (by this I mean body type and skin tone) that you could use them to market your unique outfits very well. For any BJD clothes - having one open eye model and one closed eye model is a good idea since some of us collect one or the other or a bit of both. And one male and one female body model too since those bodies tend to be very different in sculpting/proportions. Maybe do some research on what custom clothes are moving in the different communities if you're really trying to use up fabric/sell product. Otherwise, just make stuff for YOU and your friends! Just because you can sew doesn't mean you have to sell your skills! You can just enjoy the process and give your dolls all the clothes they could ever want!
       
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    13. It’s been an interest of mine for the past several years and I do strive towards it in many aspects of my life. :) I think if you look at hobbies as necessary then there can be space for curated collections in a minimalist lifestyle. Everyone seems to have their own definition of minimalism though :sweat
       
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    14. I have a growing collection of G1 My Little Ponies. They're surprisingly addictive! I really like fixing them up, cleaning them, brushing their hair...

      I'm trying to find a balance between them and BJDs, as they both compete for shelf space!
       
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    15. Honestly, it sounds like the Barbies bring you joy and that's really what matters. Life should be about pursuing the things that make all the suffering worth it!

      Even if the clothes don't have high resale value/demand, if they add worth to your world by sprucing up the dolls you love to own, they're worth putting your time in to.

      It's almost a feedback loop- you're frustrated by keeping dolls you can't redress, but you don't want to make clothes to redress them because they lack resale value. But if you keep the clothes, that justifies your dolls AND neutralizes the resale value issue!!

      It sucks that we have to operate with money always tainting everything. Capitalism imbues everyone with the pressure to turn hobbies into money, otherwise we're "wasting time" on enjoyable things.

      But the funny thing is? When people have enough money, all they do are the things that are enjoyable just for the sake of doing them.

      Besides, the time and effort you put into Barbie clothes will only improve your tailoring skills! Which can make your bjd clothes turn out better as well.
       
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    16. Minimalism is ironically subjected to how much space you have access to lol. It's easy to appear minimalist when you have plenty of space to spread out & store!!
       
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